Stillmine is a verbatim play by Isabelle Defaut about stillbirth and baby loss, created from a collage of interviews with bereaved parents, midwives, and doctors.

Sensitive, reflective, and unflinching, the play gives voice to the remarkable words of people who have experienced first hand this largely unspoken part of life.

In the UK baby loss still affects thousands of families every year. Stillmine is a tribute to these incredible parents, and reminds us to celebrate the joy of every life, however brief.

Thanks to funding received from the National Lottery through Arts Council England in March 2022 we were able to start the research and development stage of Stillmine, which included a script-in-hand performance at the Power of Women Festival Fringe in Margate. We have since performed the work at The East Kent Hospital Trust as part of NHS midwifery training as well as a performance at the Tom Thumb Theatre, Margate, durning Baby Loss Awareness Week, October 2023.

With huge thanks to our partners: the Drama Department at the School of Arts, University of Kent; Sands; the Power of Women Festival; The East Kent Hospital Trust; Tom Thumb Theatre and Margate Arts Club.

What people say about Stillmine…

“Verbatim means ‘In exactly the same words’. Fact. As it is. With all artifice removed. Which is why the form is so appropriate to Stillmine. Raw experience. No cover. No shield. Nothing between us and the fact. The words, the actual words tether us to the loss. To Loss.

Yet what is remarkable about this play, Stillmine, is that the author, Isabelle Defaut has, in her composition, untethered the voices to become, well, music. Nothing could be more appropriate. Loss is by its nature beyond words. 

The way she does this is to do, I think, with time. And I do not only mean time-ing. Though that is masterly. The cutting and timing of the grief and griefs, fact and facts, contained within the multiple voices joins the everyday with the ever and forever. The voices insistence, their rise and fall, their dissonance and sometimes harmony, draw you into the harmonics and notes of their loss. So the whole becomes symphonic.  A choir of experience.

But there is another sense in which time is at the centre of this piece. Boris Pasternak, I believe, said “Music is the noise of Time.” Stillmine in its sense of fragility, unflinching vulnerability and exposure, captures something much larger than the intimacy of each of the voices at its centre. It speaks of a wider fragility. The fragility fo OUR time. A sense in which we all stand in a place of deep uncertainty. It describes the thread we are all continuously part of. Reaching backwards and forwards in time; and this thread, this continuity has never felt more precarious.

Which is why this piece which links the personal and political, the mundane and the numinous, loss and honouring is truly a composition for our time, that taps into a collective grief as well as private loss, requiring us all to begin ‘…to learn to live with a new you’…. Or a new us.”

- Simon McBurney OBE, Artistic Director of Complicité

Stillmine, script-in-hand performance from The Aphra Theatre, 2022

Film by Girish Juneja